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Life Spans – Bridge Divorce Strategies Newsletter

Timing is everything

I’m going to stick my neck out here and offer you something entirely free, something you’re guaranteed to find incredibly valuable, which will make you look like (even more of) a hero to your clients, with absolutely no obligation to engage me or my services whatsoever.

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Life Spans – Bridge Divorce Strategies Newsletter

Dependency Depends

Imagine how a CPA and tax expert, like me, cringes when she hears people who are not tax experts, casually tossing around tax “advice.” Yup. I’m talking about family law attorneys. Let me count the ways...

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Life Spans – Bridge Divorce Strategies Newsletter

Bad Housekeeping

Here’s a financial vocabulary word that many women facing divorce don’t understand: “fungible.” It means that items are basically interchangeable in value.

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Life Spans – Bridge Divorce Strategies Newsletter

Life in AFI Land, Part 2: The Husband

In my last newsletter, I addressed the topic of the AFI: the Affidavit of Financial Information. More specifically, I addressed it from the point of view of a woman facing divorce, and the challenges that she (and by extension, you) face when trying to complete it.

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Life Spans – Bridge Divorce Strategies Newsletter

Life in AFI Land

One of my attorney clients once told me, “The AFI, hands down, is the most important thing you can help with.”

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Life Spans – Bridge Divorce Strategies Newsletter

Graphic Details

I’m a numbers person. As an attorney, I’ll guess that you’re not. (One of my attorney clients told me, in a moment of candor, “When I went to law school, they promised me there wouldn’t be any math!”)

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Life Spans – Bridge Divorce Strategies Newsletter

A No-Brainer…?

As an attorney, sometimes you’re handed a no-brainer case, almost like a gift. On the surface, this Jane Doe story will seem like one of those. Which begs the question: Why did Jane’s attorney, in this story, call on me?

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Life Spans – Bridge Divorce Strategies Newsletter

Devilish Details

While this is certainly a “Jane Doe story,” I was actually hired as a neutral in this case. It’s one of these stories whose details will make your eyes glaze over. That’s exactly what it did to Jane’s attorney.

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Life Spans – Bridge Divorce Strategies Newsletter

Excelling Beyond Excel

Jane had been married for 15 years, when her husband, a successful professional, hit her out of the blue with divorce papers. As his practice had grown, he decided it was time to “upgrade” his wife.

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Insider Advising

Jane is in her late fifties. She’s been a stay-at-home mom forever, with no marketable skills or recent education. Her son is in his late teens.

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